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Welcome to Issue 5 of The Elegance Edit — your weekly space for refinement, presence, and timeless style. Each edition invites you to deepen your confidence and grace—quietly, intentionally, and beautifully.
Last week, we explored the art of posing—how to go from hesitation to confident stillness in front of a camera. This week, we look not at how you appear in photos—but at how you carry yourself in life. Because the ultimate portrait is not taken by a lens—it’s drawn by every person you meet.
And for that, there is no better model than Catherine, Princess of Wales.
When the Princess of Wales enters a room, she brings with her more than perfect posture and impeccable tailoring. She brings a presence—one that feels both regal and real. And while she represents centuries of tradition, her style never feels outdated. It feels lived-in, breathed-in—modernized by intentionality.
We don’t admire her because she is untouchable. We admire her because she moves through the world with quiet confidence, self-respect, and sincere attention to others.
And here lies the lesson: royal grace isn’t exclusive. It isn’t inherited. It’s cultivated.
You don’t need a crown to move like a queen. But you do need intention. Presence. And the willingness to treat every interaction as an opportunity to offer something beautiful.
It’s not about outdated rules or exaggerated formality.
It’s about respect—for yourself, for the moment, and for others.
Take a look at how Catherine uses clothing not as decoration, but communication. A coat dress for a morning engagement. A floor-length gown for a diplomatic dinner. Every detail says:
“I am present. I am prepared. I honor this space.”
We can do the same—whether we’re arriving at a work event, a dinner with friends, or a weekend brunch. Because elegance doesn’t require wealth or titles. It only asks for awareness and grace.
In last week’s Elegance Game, we explored a moment from the 2023 Top Gun: Maverick premiere. The Princess initially accepted Tom Cruise’s hand to walk up the stairs—only to subtly switch her clutch to that same hand, signaling with poise that she preferred not to take it again.
A single gesture. A quiet boundary. Elegance in action.
The Princess of Wales tailors her approach to each event, whether it’s visiting a children’s hospital or greeting dignitaries. We too must tune our presence to the setting—evolving our grace to match the occasion.
Consider these categories of social elegance:
Different moments call for different expressions of elegance. The art is in knowing the difference—and showing up with intention.
Ask yourself: Why am I here? To listen? To lead? To celebrate? Let that clarity shape your energy and attire.
Notice how the Princess slightly leans in when someone speaks. It’s not exaggerated. It’s present. This body language quietly says: “You matter.”
Think of energy like accessories. Just as you wouldn’t wear statement earrings to a solemn ceremony, choose whether this is a moment for joy, humility, or stillness.
The Princess rarely gestures dramatically. She doesn’t interrupt. She doesn’t rush. Her restraint is elegant. Her stillness carries power.
Genuine eye contact. A warm “Lovely to meet you.” A gentle movement to include someone else in the conversation. These micro-moments create lasting impressions.
What we admire most about Catherine isn’t her title. It’s her attention. Her warmth. Her ability to make every person she meets feel seen—whether it’s a world leader or a schoolchild.
That’s the secret to royal etiquette. Not following rules for their own sake. But creating an atmosphere where everyone feels respected.
And that’s something all of us can do.
At your next event—whether it’s a formal dinner or casual coffee—channel this same gracious presence. Offer your full attention. Move with calm assurance. Speak with care.
Because true elegance isn’t about being admired. It’s about how others feel in your presence.
At Elegance Studio, we believe grace is not something you’re born with—it’s something you build.
That’s why our beloved Glow Up Saturday has blossomed into the Elegant Weekend — a thoughtfully curated experience where every detail is designed to cultivate your most refined self.
We begin on Friday with a class dedicated to your Beautiful and Elegant Walk — the foundation of your presence. Saturday offers a journey through:
Each class can stand alone. But together, they form a powerful foundation of timeless sophistication. Whether you attend one or all, you’ll leave with more than knowledge — you’ll leave with poise that lingers.
We would be honored to welcome you.
Watch our featured tip on refined greeting posture and graceful movement here:
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Join us and walk into every space with the quiet assurance of royalty.
As any royal watcher knows, the clutch is more than an accessory — it’s a strategic tool. A recent article from Stylist revealed how Catherine uses her clutch to politely avoid handshakes or guide social interactions. One of her favorites? The Emmy London clutch — timeless, discreet, and beautifully constructed.
Elegance, after all, is never accidental. It’s considered. And it shows.
There may be no better stage for refining your royal presence than Royal Ascot — the most graceful gathering of the social season. From the quiet elegance of a gloved wave to the poised stillness as you applaud a race, every detail becomes a practice in presence.
Royal Ascot
June 17–21, 2025
www.ascot.com/royal-ascot
And for our American readers:
Bridgehampton Polo Club, where Hamptons charm meets European elegance. Here, your soft posture, social grace, and polished conversation will feel right at home.
Bridgehampton Polo
July 19, 2025
www.polohamptons.com
How does one maintain elegance while attending a live sporting event, as royalty often do?
We’ll reveal the royal-approved answer in next week’s edition. Until then, step into each moment not with performance, but with presence.
Because the true crown is your grace.